Has anyone ever told you that you have a bad attitude? If your attitude were like a weather forecast, what would it look like today—sunny, cloudy, stormy, or maybe even a hurricane warning?
Just like the weather can shape our day, our attitude shapes how we live, how others experience us, and how we experience the world around us.
What Is Attitude, Really?
At its core, attitude is a person’s belief or feeling toward a person, object, idea, or situation that influences their thoughts and behavior. Attitudes can be good or bad, positive or negative, and they shape the way we respond to life.
Think of two students both told to clean their rooms before going out. One grumbles, complains, and drags his feet. The other chooses to do the chore cheerfully to honor God. The task is the same, but the attitude changes the whole experience—for them and for the people around them.
Which one would you rather spend time with?
Mood vs. Attitude
A bad attitude isn’t the same thing as a bad mood. Your mood is temporary and often beyond your control, while attitude is a mindset you choose. Moods come and go, but attitude is a lasting outlook that reflects the way you think.
In the Bible, “attitude” often refers to the mindset that guides our actions, thoughts, and relationships. A renewed mind, a servant’s spirit, or humility—all of these describe godly attitudes.
Spirit, Soul, and Body: Who’s in Charge?
Paul often wrote about our attitudes in his letters to the early churches. He explained that our spirit, soul, and body all play a role in shaping our lives:
- Spirit – Always aligned with God’s will.
- Body (flesh) – Naturally opposed to God’s will, corrupted by sin.
- Soul (mind, will, emotions) – The deciding factor. The mind thinks, the will chooses, and the emotions feel. Together, they determine whether we follow the Spirit or the flesh.
Scripture calls us to renew our minds, submit our wills, and surrender our emotions to God so that our lives line up with His Spirit.
Why Attitude Matters to God
When we accept Jesus, we are promised eternal life. But God’s blessings and protection in this life flow when we align ourselves with His Spirit. If we keep living the “old way,” we miss out on the fullness of what God wants for us.
Paul made this clear:
- Romans 6:1–2 – “Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?”
Paul’s reminder is simple: you are no longer who you used to be. Stop living like a “chicken” when God has made you an eagle!
Renewing the Mind
Paul repeatedly emphasized renewing our thoughts and choosing godly attitudes:
- Romans 12:2 – “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
- Ephesians 4:22–23 – “Put off your old self… to be made new in the attitude of your minds.”
- Philippians 2:5 – “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.”
- 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 – “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances.”
- Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true… noble… right… pure… lovely… admirable… think about such things.”
Incorrect attitudes don’t come from your spirit—God’s Spirit in you is perfect. They come from un-renewed thinking. That’s why God calls us to continually reshape our mindset to reflect His truth.
Thermostat vs. Thermometer
Here’s a powerful illustration:
- A thermometer reacts to the environment. It simply reflects what’s going on.
- A thermostat controls the environment. It sets the tone.
When we let circumstances dictate our response, we’re living like thermometers. But when we choose kindness, patience, and self-control regardless of the situation, we’re living like thermostats. That’s the kind of attitude that honors God.
Paul lived this way. No matter his circumstances—imprisonment, beatings, or hardships—he chose a godly attitude that reflected Christ.
A Challenge for You
This week, when something negative or frustrating happens, pause and ask yourself:
“What attitude would honor God right now?”
Write it down, share it with a friend, or keep a reminder card in your pocket. Small changes in attitude can lead to big changes in your life and the lives of those around you.